30. Getting assessed

The UK pathway to a child ADHD assessment. Four steps, what each looks like, and roughly how long it takes.

1/4 Book the GP

Ask for a double slot so you have time to be heard properly. Request a referral to community paediatrics (for under-18s) or, in England, to a Right to Choose clinic. The choice is yours.

2/4 Gather evidence

Pull together school reports, examples of behaviour you've noticed, and ask if the school can complete a Conners or SDQ questionnaire. The more concrete the picture, the smoother the next step.

3/4 Assessment

Expect anywhere from three to eighteen months on the NHS. A specialist, such as a paediatrician or child psychiatrist, will usually gather information from you, your child and the school.

4/4 Plan & support

A diagnosis can lead to school support (EHCP, exam access), parent training programmes, and the option of medication trials from around age six. None of it is automatic, but all of it is there.

EHCP (Education, Health & Care Plan)

This is a legally binding document setting out the support your child needs in school, and you can apply directly to your local authority without the school's permission. IPSEA's free helpline will walk you through every step.

IPSEA helpline

Meet the SENCO

Every school has a Special Educational Needs Co-ordinator, and a written request for a meeting often carries more weight than a passing word at the gate. Three questions to ask: "What's already in place? What can be put on a SEN Support Plan? Can you complete a Conners questionnaire for us?"

DLA (Disability Living Allowance)

Rates are set each April (check current rates on GOV.UK). For children under 16 with ADHD and significant care needs, tax-free, and it doesn't affect any other benefits you're on. Many parents don't know it exists. Check current rates and eligibility on GOV.UK. Take the half hour, fill it in.

Apply on gov.uk

Brothers and sisters

Siblings of ADHD kids often absorb more than anyone realises, and they need their own space to talk about it. Sibs is a UK charity dedicated entirely to them, with free resources, peer groups and guides for parents.

sibs.org.uk

NHS services, provider availability, waiting times and local arrangements change. Check current information with your GP, the provider or GOV.UK. Last checked September 2026.

Written by Rich, who has ADHD. This guide is information, not medical advice. How this guide is written · Need help now?